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Using the Qur’an to Mentor You Through Life [Interview with Sumayah Hassan]

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Using the Qur’an to Mentor You Through Life [Interview with Sumayah Hassan]


The month of the Qur’an is upon us, Alhamdulillah.

Ramadan is the month in which the Qur’an was revealed as stated in the verse:

”The month of Ramadhan [is that] in which was revealed the Qur’an, a guidance for the people and clear proofs of guidance and criterion…” (Al Baqarah 2, 185)

This great and noble Book is the best guidance for mankind.

It also serves as a manual and mentor that guides to a more purposeful life. No doubt, you are seeking ways to renew your relationship with the Qur’an – to bring it closer to your heart and soul – in the special month and beyond.

It is for this reason that I’m very excited to bring this interview to you – with Sumayah Hassan of Recite & Reflect.

Recite and Reflect logo for Qur'an post

As the founder of Recite & Reflect, Sumayah aims to redefine the way the Quran is experienced. The mother of three knows first hand the struggle of trying to understand the Quran and connect with it in a personal way. Since discovering the power of reflection, she has dedicated herself to teaching Quranic reflection, and making it simple and accessible to everyone.

Interview ~ Using the Qur’an to Mentor You Through Life

As Muslims what should our relationship with the Qur’an be like?

Ever-growing, continuous and one of love.

The reason I chose these three descriptions is because over the course of my own journey and seeing the sisters around me I’ve come to a different understanding of what our relationship with the Quran should be like.

By ever-growing, I mean in a state of increase.

As a rule of thumb, if you aren’t improving you’re probably falling back. We’re never just standing still. So wherever you are in your individual journey, make the effort to gradually grow from there.

It’s personal and everyone’s process is unique, so work to steadily increase over time.

Continuous, because the best deeds are those done consistently.

Diligent, on-going, persistent effort to improve your recitation, learn, understand, memorize and study. It’s easy to look back and say, “I used to go to classes, and I learned the rules of recitation years ago…” however, actual results come from keeping it up.

Even a small act done consistently beats a great act done only once in a while.

Finally, I chose love, because while we can agree that we hold the Quran, the Word of Allah (SWT), in the Highest regard – unfortunately the relationship many have with the Quran today, has turned into one steeped in guilt, inadequacy and for some, even negativity.

Primarily because we aren’t being taught about the Quran in the correct way, and partially because developing a relationship with the Quran has gone from being a means to an end in and of itself.

For someone seeing the Quran as a series of laws and rules that make their life difficult, it’s clear that they’re starting on the wrong foot. By the same token, when the Quran is seen solely as something to be recited and read with perfect tajweed and articulation – and studied academically, those who fail to do so feel distanced and left out.

So approaching the Quran with love, seeing it as the gift that it is, from the Most Merciful, (SWT) and knowing that we’re all entitled to accessing the beauty and guidance in it, is the first step in the right direction insha Allah.

What simple and practicable steps can one take to make the Qur’an a part of daily life?

Reading it daily, ideally with understanding what you’re reading through translations or the commentary of Tafseer. Even if it’s a few ayat.

Regular recitation or reading helps you become a better reader with practice and you’ll be constantly learning more about the Quran.

For busy students and those juggling many roles in life, what special tips can you give?

  • Make a set time for the Quran, and don’t give it up. Probably before or after your day begins, like before or after Fajr. Once they day starts, it has a way of rolling out of your control, and the night comes before you’ve had a chance to read. So commit, and stick to it. When you miss it, make it up.
  • Decide on what you’re looking to gain from your time with the Quran. Your objective will determine what you need to do. For example memorization is essentially repetition. Where revision is reciting from memory.
  • Listen to the Quran and discussions of the Tafseer as much as possible. It helps build familiarity, and develop your background on the themes and topics, and that comes in handy when you study in depth insha Allah.

Life can be very challenging. How can Qur’an aid us through to a more purposeful life?

Through understanding its teachings and being able to derive lessons and reflect on how it relates to our reality. I teach a workshop, where we learn to do just that. recite and reflect workshop poster for Qur'an post on YouthlyHub.com

Alhamdulillah, it’s clear that while we may have been in a relationship with the Quran for some time, we’ve yet to get to a point where we can access the wisdom that’s so readily available.

Beyond just learning the meaning, we need to take the next step and look at how that meaning applies to our daily lives and how divine wisdom translates into action.

How can we live its teachings and become models for others?

Whenever you learn something, make the intention, and try your best to apply it. Even if it’s just once. We want knowledge to be a witness for us, not against us.

How can we imbibe its love into the heart of others, especially the young ones?

By seeing the parents, adults and role models in their lives expressing this love through action and example.

Exposure to confident and capable reciters, teachers, mentors and observing their own parents reading after fajr, reciting in the evening or listening throughout the day really helps.

How can the youth use its teachings to build an Islamic identity?

The beauty of learning about and understanding the Quran is that is changes the way you see and think entirely.

So while there’s a push to conform with the external matters of identity and affiliate yourself with a culture of sorts, the Qur’an teaches us to shed these ideas and redefine ourselves through the lens of its teachings.

We take on the definitions that Allah (SWT) gives us in the Quran for success, beauty, goodness, nobility and the Quran becomes the standard we want to try to measure up to, and the Prophet (SAW) our model for the practical dimensions of this guidance.

So learning and understanding is key, in addition to recitation and memorization of course.

How can one develop mindfulness of the Words of Allah (SWT), especially for those who are non Arabic speaking?

It’s obvious, but get started on trying to learn Arabic. It takes time, so start now.

While you’re going through that process, learn all you can from the English resources around you. Read, watch and listen to commentary and courses to help you understand and connect with the Quran.

Don’t drop out of your Arabic classes because you aren’t moving as fast as you’d like. Stick them out, don’t rush the results.

Be fair to yourself.

If you’re too lazy to learn from the English resources and local courses and classes around you, then don’t think you’ll suddenly find the motivation and focus to study abroad or at some residential program.

Work with what you have, and make Dua, Allah (SWT) will open doors for you.

What apps and tools can you recommend to ease this process?

Check out tools here.

Any books and courses that can help further?

Recite & Recite resources here

Any last word (especially for Ramadan)?

For Ramadan I want to echo what many have been sharing as we approach the blessed month. May Allah (SWT) bless it and accept it from all of us and allow us to witness Laylatul Qadr and forgive us.

~ Don’t make this month about to-do lists.

~ Quality over quantity, and be thankful for all that you manage to do, it’s a gift from Allah (SWT).

~ Avoid comparison and getting discouraged when you fall short from trying to reach unreasonable ideals.

~ Think practical, be realistic and make the most of your intentions.

~Prep your Du’a lists now, and make every second count insha Allah.
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Over to you – In what ways will you use the Qur’an to mentor you through Ramadan and beyond?


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  1. ayeina June 17, 2016

    jazak Allahu khair for the guide .May Allah help us to recite understand and then implement it in our lives ameen ya rab

  2. Fozia S June 15, 2016

    Masha’Allah what a great interview…useful for not just the youth. I agree with trying to read it daily if you can. I also can struggle but am determined to set some time aside to daily read it WITH translation. It can be difficult to want to read if you don’t actually understand it, which is the problem I have always had

  3. Rubina June 12, 2016

    This is a great and thorough list and really good resources too! May Allah make our lives connected with the Qur’an, aameen 🙂

    1. Amina Edota June 14, 2016

      Amin. It’s a much needed Du’a indeed.

  4. Shahira June 12, 2016

    This came just in perfect time for me Alhamdulilah 🙂 I have been hunting for online Quran classes for some time now. I found Al huda suitable for me.. I will look through the above page and see if it’s suitable for my timings

    May Allah make the Quran the light of our hearts

    1. Amina Edota June 14, 2016

      Masha Allah, I hope it works for you.

  5. Abubakar Abdullahi June 12, 2016

    Jazakallahu Khairan. I really enjoyed reading this. May Allah make Qur’an be our guidance in our everyday life, ameen.

    1. Amina Edota June 12, 2016

      Wa iyyak. And amin to your duas… We really need the Qur’an in our lives.

  6. Jameela June 12, 2016

    I love the way she says our relationship with the Qur’an should be ever-growing, continuous and love. This is a great reminder. It’s something that I want for myself and family. We’ve always made after maghrib a time to read the Qur’an so alhmadulillah we read every day. My oldest son has recently expressed his wish to understand the Qur’an in Arabic so isnhaAllah we’re looking for Arabic classes!

    1. Amina Edota June 14, 2016

      Masha Allah it’s so beautiful that you have daily family time for Qur’an. That’s so important for the children’s upbringing and bonding as a family through Allah’s Word.

      I pray your son finds the best classes to aid him on his Qur’an goal and becomes a gem for the Ummah insha Allah.

  7. Zainab Dokrat June 10, 2016

    I think as a Muslim no matter how busy we are we should take even a minute to read even a page of Quraan. There is so much reward in just one letter pronounced not even as a sentence. Quraan always guides you, keeps you calm, let’s your daily duties go smoothly and earns you rewards and aren’t we all in need of rewards. Shukran for sharing, I really enjoyed reading this, especially in Ramadan we should try to read more Quraan as possible.

    1. Amina Edota June 10, 2016

      Yes indeed! We are always in need of calm, guidance and rewards. Why not seek for it via the Qur’an?

  8. Haya June 10, 2016

    Very inspiring! In a it was a self check. I loved the way sister Sumayyah Hassan sees relationship with Quran- ” seeing it as the gift ” Indeed it’s the quality of our Ibadah that matters. May Allah help us improve. May our deeds be accepted by Him. Aameen

    1. Amina Edota June 10, 2016

      Amin to your duas.

  9. Fatima June 9, 2016

    Reading the Quran in our everyday lives brings so much peace and refreshes our body and soul. This was a good evening read. Thank you for sharing.

    1. Amina Edota June 10, 2016

      It brings such inner and outer peace, that its hard to explain – except by experiencing it oneself.

  10. Kahk & Karkade June 9, 2016

    Interesting and inspiring interview. I like the approach with ‘love’ because ‘love’ is what determinates both my spiritual and secular actions. I have to confess that I struggle with embedding reading Quran in my daily life. I have no fixed schedule and so I end up mostly with reading some ayat from my mobile while sitting in the public transport. It’s better than nothing, I know but I am not able to do it after Fajr, I admire everybody able to do so. My husband reads in the late evening. And me, well, whenever it comes into my mind.

    1. Amina Edota June 9, 2016

      Masha Allah… I hope you are inspired enough to incorporate reading the Qur’an in your daily life insha Allah

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